"I didn't want to keep him in foster care. It's not fair. It's not fair for me to think: Well, you know what, one day I might get my life together. Well, you know what? Your life is not together now and your baby needs love now."
It think it's worth reading this interesting article I had never heard of this before, now I have some idea of how other country's residents feel about their children being adopted by foreigners.