Saturday, September 14, 2013

Still SLUMPING, big time...

I'm having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that Primo's stay in foster care has been prolonged by 6 months. So frustrating to have NO control. I know I have to let it go.

BUT...HOW?
 
Foster care sucks big time for me right now, but nothing about having Primo around is bad. Thank goodness he has no idea what is going on or not going on in court or in his case right now. As far as he's concerned he's home with his family and all is right with the world.

Primo being in one single solitary home for his whole two years in foster care = GOOD

 A bright spot, no?

7 comments:

  1. Also, primo having a great post foster care option=good

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  2. Yes! {But the waiting is still awful!}

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  3. I cannot imagine your frustration!!! Yes. Logically, Primo being in the same home for 2 years is good but emotionally (your emotions) have got to be just crazy. We currently have our second FC placement. The first was pretty clear cut and the visits were no big deal/understandable/no major reaction afterward. This time is totally different. Much reaction after the visit. Trauma behaviors return. I hate the idea that any child (or FP) has to deal with the visits and all the many, many appointments for that long without permanency. Ridiculous!! But...thanks for what you do. The kids are definitely worth it!

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    1. Thanks for what you do too, and thanks for understanding.

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